With all the love & hope

Everdearest X,

​In 2 short moths, you will be turning 4 years old.  It seems too soon, but I already have mama aches about sending you out to the world.  The more exposed you are to other people, the less I feel I can protect you.  And yet, the more I feel I need to.

You will be judged.  You will be teased.  You will be compared to others around you.  You will meet people who are quick to point out your flaws, and slow to look beyond them.  I wish I could make them see what I see in you...but we cannot change the thoughts and actions of others.

My true wish, as your mama, is to help you find your own confidence, security and independence.  My true wish is for your love of thins (and people) to shine, unwavering, despite the opinions of others.  That includes me and papa.  We will always want what's best for you, but we may not always know what that is. 

Stay pure and true, in your heart.  There are a handful of people who remind that it's possible to go through this world, sadness and all, and still be able to love with kindness, compassion and equality.  My Ba Noi was one of those people, and you are another.  As your mama for this lifetime, I hope this to be true, forever and ever.

With all the love and hope,
​Mama.